Dating Woes: FWB

Ha! Saw this on the the blog and it cracked me up...I would love to spend a day in Russ's brain...but only if I had a fool proof escape plan. ;)

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quote of the day

Any guy who offers the “friends with benefits” option is likely to be bad at both. – Russ

Dating woes: Ummmm....what?

Just got this email that sorta confused the crap out of me...not really sure how he came to some of the assumptions about my nature just by my profile, which says things like, I like zombies and peanut butter, but maybe that is code for crazy... Note to self: must rewrite profile and remove all subliminal messages that are beacons to crazy pants men!!

Hello Raka upon your adventures

What you express here on your profile I find to be delightful, open minded & Open hearted. So, are you really real? If so are you open to explore what is possible together?

As for your sassy ass, yes also intriguing hint about your figure, I sense it could just be your sweet ends to a means........of a very special adventure just for two :) Oh, btw, yes I am very tactile.

Here are a few aspects of myself:
Laughter is still The Best of All Seasonings! Oh, and btw, I love to cook, esp. couple cooking.
Likewise, I enjoy movies and cuddling—and yes at times it can be just cuddling.
Oh, and yes I love to dance, enjoy most music, doubles tennis—although it has been a few years. Moreover, I Love Living Life!

Oh, know that I am as real as you. I don't say what I don't mean. And there is no need to deny truths.
You are one, who actually seems to embraces her true self. And seeks to discover all of her depth within, and desires to be her most true self within this womanly being. You certainly have the courage to still be vulnerable, as well as having the guts to be confident, assertive, peaceful, joy filled.

I seek one woman, much like yourself I sense, who can be confident, strong character, and assertive when beneficial. And also who embraces or might be curious about whether or not she has a submissive kinky nature to offer to One. Of course, while she also is who she is in the vanilla world around family, friends, church perhaps, career, neighbors, etc.


Note to ms m, I’m in the Kansas City area, south on the Ks side.

Also, please note that my photo is not on here because the format doesn’t seem to match so it doesn’t upload here. So when you write to me there, which is much more convenient for me, then I’ll gladly respond and attach my photo for you. My email: xxxxxx@gmail.com

So when are you willing to consider sharing a glass of wine, or a cup of coffee/tea , Mastering FUN--non-harmful, non-evil, non-condescending, just plain ole Fun or at least a walk n talk with sincere conversation?
Sooner than later !

With mutual respect,
Lust, Laughter, Leather, & lace
MrD


Oh, and... Oh, and... ;) I wonder what he looks likes...stay tuned...gonna try to find out. He does after all, enjoy doubles tennis, although it has been a few years.

Westside Stories: Another James...

So Jamie D, introduced me to Jim Woodfill, a super cool artist who does amazing things with light, movement and sound. Hoping he will be able to collaborate on some kinetic lighting for my house!!! He is all about re-purposing, stripping down to the bare essentials, focusing on details and sort of the subtle unexpected (that's my take anyway, he might describe himself differently). Since he will make James #3 on the project, pretty sure it is meant to be. I really want to build and design my whole house solely with people named some derivative of James.

www.jameswoodfill.com

Dating Woes: So many hats....

I like guys who let me know all their likes on their heads. It just keeps things simple.

Dating Woes: Bri laughs at my pain...

Here is today's Chuck and Beans on the shoebox blog...inspired by yours truly...sigh... :)

Thanks Mr. Brian Gordon!!

Westside Stories: the fortune gods approve...

Just got this amazing fortune at lunch today!
Thanks for the affirmation fortune cookie gods!!

Dating Woes: Real strange real fast...

Red flags?!? Anyone see ANY red flags?? This entire chat took, at most, 3 minutes. I should call him, right? Maybe he's the one....

IhaveaBIGbrain: youre very pretty

raka: wow. thanks

IhaveaBIGbrain:hi im adam

raka: rachel

raka: nice to meet u

IhaveaBIGbrain: pretty name and yes nice to sort of meet you rachel

IhaveaBIGbrain: how did you know i love really pretty curvy women like you!??

raka: lol. didn't know

IhaveaBIGbrain: now you do

IhaveaBIGbrain: so tell me how much you like tall men with shaved heads!

IhaveaBIGbrain: i would like you to get a pen for my number, i want to hear if your voice is half as pretty as you are

IhaveaBIGbrain: tell me when youre ready

raka: u don't mess around. ;)

IhaveaBIGbrain: are you multi chatting?

raka1978: at this second?

IhaveaBIGbrain: yes

raka1978: nope

IhaveaBIGbrain: why so long to respond? (NOTE: I responded in about 4 seconds)

raka: doing stuff

IhaveaBIGbrain: okay sorry to take you away from your stuff

raka: no worries, you're fine

IhaveaBIGbrain: i want a woman that is nice, kind, funny, smart, very pretty like you who likes to be submissive sometimes but only sexually, yet she still has the power if that makes sense

raka: yep. makes sense.

IhaveaBIGbrain: call me NOW to say hello at 908 803 XXXX

IhaveaBIGbrain: making me wait? (NOTE: he sent this message about a nano second after he sent me his number)

Room with a View: The Circle of life...

My pumpkin could just not handle a week at 1610! Seriously. Only MY pumpkin self destructed under the pressure of the frat house. :) And, where did did the roaches come from and why are they basking in the "juice" left from my hipster pumpkin?!?!

Please to Enjoy 76

what i am listening to, this exact second...

Link to Please to Enjoy 76

1. Infinity - XX
2. The Gun - Lou Reed
3. Violator - White Williams
4. Funnel Of Love - Wanda Jackson
5. Have Love Will Travel - The Sonics
6. Tokyo - Telekinesis!
7. The Vowels Pt. 2 - Why?
8. Seven (Martyn's Seventh Mix) - Fever Ray
9. Neighbor Down The Hall - Benji Hughes
10. Thorn In Your Side - The Postmarks
11. Peace Like A River - Paul Simon
12. In The Morning - Candie Payne
13. Stay The Night - Ghosts
14. Before I started to Dance - Quixote feat Lisa Li Lund
15. Your Rocky Spine - Great Lake Swimmers
16. Looking Glass - Little Dragon
17. White Collar Boy - Belle and Sebastian
18. Vanished - Crystal Castles
19. Cape Canaveral - Conor Oberst
20. Deadbeat Summer - Neon Indian
21. I and Love and You - The Avett Brothers

Dating Woes: Lumberbilly? Rockajack?

So, discovered at lunch that this is apparently what I am looking for... if only life were as easy as Photoshop!

Aural Pleasures: GOGOL Bordello, Liberty Hall

Here are some amazing views from the Gogol Bordello show in Lawrence...it only took 2 songs for him to get shirtless and sweatastic!!!


K-10 and the burning sky

Westside Stories: SOLD!!!!

This happened a little while ago, but I didn't want to post it too early and jinx it.

YAY!!! Only took 6 crazy months. (Gonna ignore the fact the buyers are complete a-holes and I lost some cash moneys....)

Dating Woes: Monday mornin dip...

Ok, so SlayerDave29 has sent me several messages, and I have been actively ignoring them, but then the hot tubs ones started...(BTW, the "invite" was sent on sunday night...appealing as a Monday AM hot tub first date sounds, I didn't respond...mistake?!)

Dating Woes: Fo shizzzy?

So the last 3 guys to view my profile have the following names:

1. Belaaazzzy617

2. Maceeezy

3. Realeazzzy43

Dating in Misshizzle is the bizzle. :)

Room with a view: my 1610 LOVES...

Raquel Redemption...

5 Remotes, 1 Baton, 1 TV, 2 batteries to share

My lucky "R" I found on move in day...and the duct tape light switch

Pioneer bucket sink

Good. Clean. Fun.

Trophies

The Glow Horse trumped the TV

TOM BEAR

Romance Resume Sevices....the rent doesn't pay itself.

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